Meeting new people is exciting, but you should always be cautious when interacting with someone you do not know. Use your best judgment and put your safety first, whether you are exchanging initial messages or meeting in person. While you cannot control the actions of others, there are things you can do to help you stay safe during your Mahaton Place experience.

Online Safety

Never Send Money or Share Financial Information

Never send money, especially over wire transfer, even if the person claims to be in an emergency. Wiring money is like sending cash — it is impossible to reverse the transaction or trace where the money went Never share information that could be used to access your financial accounts. If another user asks you for money, report it to us at once.

For tips on avoiding romance swindles, check out some advice from the U.S Federal Trade Commission on the FTC website or in the video below.

Protect Your Personal Information

Never share personal information, such as your social security number, home or work address, or details about your daily routine (e.g., that you go to a certain gym every Monday) with people you do not know. If you are a parent, limit the information that you share about your children on your profile and in early communications. Avoid sharing details such as your children’s names, where they go to school, or their ages or genders.

Stay on the Platform

Keep conversations on the Mahaton Place platform while you are getting to know someone. Users with bad intentions often try to move the conversation to text, messaging apps, email, or phone right away.

Be Wary of Long Distance and Overseas Relationships

Watch out for scammers who claim to be from your country but stuck somewhere else, especially if they ask for financial help to return home. Be wary of anyone who will not meet in person or talk on a phone/video call—they may not be who they say they are. If someone is avoiding your questions or pushing for a committed relationship without meeting or getting to know you first — that is a red flag.

Report All Suspicious and Offensive Behavior

You know when someone has crossed the line and when they do, we want to know about it. Block and report anyone that violates our terms. Here are some examples of violations:

  • Requests for money or donations
  • Underage users
  • Harassment, threats, and offensive messages
  • Inappropriate or harmful behavior during or after meeting in person
  • Fraudulent profiles
  • Spam or solicitation including links to commercial websites or tries to sell products or services You can report any concerns about suspicious behavior from any profile page or messaging window or here.

Protect Your Account

Be sure to pick a strong password, and always be careful when logging into your account from a public or shared computer. Mahaton Place will never send you an email asking for your username and password information — if you receive an email asking for account information, report it at once.

Meeting in Person

Do not Be in a Rush!

Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Mahaton Place. Do not be afraid to ask questions to screen for any red flags or personal dealbreakers. A phone or video call can be a useful screening tool before a meeting.

Meet in Public and Stay in Public

Meet for the first few times in a populated, public place — never at your home, your date’s home, or any other undisclosed location. If the date pressures you to go to a secluded location, end the date.

Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans

Tell a friend or family member of your plans, including when and where you are going. Have your cell phone always charged and with you.

Be in Control of Your Transportation

We want you to be in control of how you get to and from your date so that you can leave whenever you want. If you are driving yourself, it is a good idea to have a backup plan such as a ride-share app or a friend to pick you up.

Know Your Limits

Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol on you specifically — they can harm your judgment and your alertness. If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you are comfortable with, hold your ground and end the date.

Do not Leave Drinks or Personal Items Unattended

Know where your drink comes from and know where it is always — only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server. Many substances that are slipped into drinks to help sexual assault are odorless, colorless, and tasteless. Also, keep your phone, purse, wallet, and anything always having personal information on you.

If You Feel Uncomfortable, Leave

It is okay to end the date early if you are feeling uncomfortable. In fact, it is encouraged. And if your instincts are telling you something is off or you feel unsafe, ask the bartender or server for help.

LGBTQ+ Travel

Be careful while traveling. We recognize and believe in the importance of being inclusive of all gender identities and sexual orientations, but the reality is this: nowhere in the world is without potential risk, and some countries have specific laws that target LGBTQ+ people. Check out the laws around you when you travel to a new place and research what types of legal protection, if any, are available to you based on sexual orientation. If you are in unsafe territory, we suggest that you do not log into your Mahaton Place account while you are there. If you choose to log in, you should place your profile in Hidden or Private Mode.

It is important to exercise extra caution if you choose to connect with new people in these countries – as some law enforcement have been known to use dating apps as tools for potential entrapment. Some countries have also recently introduced laws that ban communications between individuals on same-sex dating applications or websites and even aggravate penalties if that communication leads to sexual encounters. Visit ILGA World to see the latest sexual orientation laws by country, and consider donating to support their research. Source: visit ILGA World, Updated March 2021

Sexual Health & Consent

Protect Yourself

When used correctly and consistently, condoms can significantly reduce the risk of contracting and passing on STI’s like HIV. But, be aware of STIs like herpes or HPV that can be passed on through skinto-skin contact. The risk of contracting some STIs can be reduced through vaccination.

Know Your Status

Not all STIs show symptoms and you do not want to be in the dark about your status. Stay on top of your health and prevent the spread of STIs by getting tested regularly. Here is where you can find a clinic near you (the US only).

Talk About It

Communication is everything: Before you get physically intimate with a partner, talk about sexual health and STI testing. And be aware — in some places, it is a crime to knowingly pass on an STI. Need help starting the conversation? Here are some tips.

Consent

All sexual activity must start with consent and should include ongoing check-ins with your partner. Verbal communication can help you and your partner ensure that you respect each other’s boundaries. Consent can be withdrawn at any time, and sex is never owed to anyone. Do not go ahead if your partner seems uncomfortable or unsure, or if your partner is unable to consent because of drugs or alcohol. Read more about it here.

Resources for Help, Support, or Advice

Remember — even if you follow these tips, no method of risk reduction is perfect. If you have a negative experience, please know that it is not your fault and help is available. Report any incidents here, and consider reaching out to one of the resources below. If you feel you are in immediate danger or need emergency aid,
call 911 (U.S. or Canada) or your local law enforcement agency.

RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline

1-800-656-HOPE (4673) | online.rainn.org | www.rainn.org

Planned Parenthood

1-800-230-7526 | www.plannedparenthood.org

National Domestic Violence Hotline

1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 | www.thehotline.org

National Human Trafficking Hotline

1-888-373-7888 or text 233733 | www.humantraffickinghotline.org

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

1-877-739-3895 | www.nsvrc.org

National Center for Missing & Exploited Children

1-800-THE-LOST (843-5678) | www.cybertipline.com

Cyber Civil Rights Initiative

1-844-878-2274 | www.cybercivilrights.org

VictimConnect – Crime Victim Resource Center

1-855-4VICTIM (855-484-2846) | www.victimconnect.org

FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center

www.ic3.gov

LGBT National Help Center

1-888-843-4564 | www.glbtnationalhelpcenter.org

Trans Lifeline

1-877-565-8860 (US) or 1-877-330-6366 (CA) | www.translifeline.org

If you are outside the US:

  • Click here for information regarding international sexual orientation laws from the International Lesbian,Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Intersex Association (ILGA).

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